Being in love and being loved are the most precious moments in our lives. But no one can decide who is really meant for us because only God can. Love is when the imperfections of someone make you think its perfect. Love is when we feel at home with someone no matter where the place is. Love is wanting someone so bad it scares you to think about losing them. Love is when you're always there for them no matter what. Love is when you think of spending your life forever with that person. And sooner or later, you'll marry him or her. Because that’s how much you love that person to the point you're willing to spend forever with him or her. Marriage is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. It is a decision for a lifetime, a judgement and a promise. But not all girls are meant for guys and not all guys are meant for girls. Sometimes it’s the other way around.
Last June 26,2015 same sex marriage has been legalized nationwide in the United States. Now citizens of the Philippines are rallying and fighting for their equal rights as human beings to marry whom they love and whom they want to spend their lives with forever. Because love is such a strong word which people are willing to die for it. All humans are gifted with love and has a free will to express it towards the person whom he wants to feel it and to become aware of it. But of course not all love relationships are always in the right estate. Some are experiencing it with complications and hassles. Just like in LGBTQ+ community, wherein in persons with complicated personalities and identities share common ideologies and perceptions. And I comprehend what they want to achieve in their personal lives. If I would to create a law, I would initiate America's law of same sex marriage. This law would consider the satisfaction and acknowledgement of the LGBTQ+ community. Being a gay, transexual, bisexual and other terms for them can't be blamed on the person himself or anyone else around him. Being that kind of person is caused by hormonal and genetically imbalance. No one doesn’t want to be treated abnormal and left out. LGBTQ+ want their voices to be heard. They also want to feel the satisfaction and happiness of the people who were considered as normal. LGBTQ+ wants to speak and be heard, to introduce and to be recognized, and of course to love and to be loved. They are very much favored for the same sex marriage. Their love for each other also deserves acknowledgement and blessing from the public and especially from God who made everything possible. They deserve to freely express their adoration and care for somebody who they think deserves their love, attention and devotion. We should believe that nobody should be ashamed to show his love and affection because it is a natural gift from God. Nothing to worry especially when you know that you're not hurting or degrading someone.
Catholic church emphasizes that sacrament of marriage should only be for men and women. This belief should change because they should not put discrimination and isolation for other genders aside from being a masculine and feminine. Even God doesn’t choose the kind of person he loves. He loves us all, especially the ones who lost their path in life. If other humans consider that having other sexuality aside from being a man and woman a sin, so it is understood that being a LGBTQ+ individual is accepted by God. Just like God, people shouldn’t be judgmental on them. Let us accept and consider them as our brothers and sisters who also want to be happy and free.
-CADL
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